Oh Paula. We wanted to believe in your buttery goodness, but alas, the butter made everything too salty. Now we have the deposition, and it isn't looking good. Paula and her brother were sued by a former manager who worked in their restaurant. She accused them of being racist, and Paula's brother sexually harassing her. She claimed that Paula wanted black servers at a wedding party, so they could be like slaves, told racist jokes, and used the n-word. Her brother apparently wanted the employees at the restaurant to watch porn with him.
This is just a hot mess y'all!!! But are we surprised an old white southern woman is racist? Nah. I'm not surprised. I'm not angry, but I am disappointed, because as this story surfaced, it was dismissed as fake. It's like the accusation and barometer of racism has a burden of proof, and often times the person who is experiencing the racism has to be responsible for proving the acts of racism happened.
Now mind you this story first broke out on the National Enquirer. We know this isn't a news organization well known for it's high standards, but once we started seeing this same story on multiple news sites, we should have thought that maybe the story was legitimate, but no, it was quickly dismissed as botched journalism or something done a satire site. As one person online put it, "I get tired of folks always crying racism!". I get tired of it too, but you know why I get tired of people crying about racism? Because I'm tired of racism. People in most cases wouldn't cry about racism, if racism didn't exist.
Why is it in our country, the burden of proof lies on the oppressed,be it women, minorities, etc? Why are we good at trying to shame people into shutting up when injustices happen?